How to Give A Rip: Part 3
This week we've been discussing the whys and how's of learning to give a rip in the difficult areas of life.
Figure out a way to give a rip about whatever is in front of you.
Today we will look at what genuine interest looks like, even in difficult situations. Yesterday we looked at how you can "figure out a way" to lead yourself to the attitude that you'd like to have. Let's continue on with the second part of the perspective shift that could bring positive impact across all areas of your life....to give a rip...
In order to be a good spouse, parent, employee, friend, etc. you have to be as interested in the task or topic as the person you're dealing with. Think about it: if your child is really interested in soccer but you could not care less, there's no way that won't come across to your child on some level. You'll either foster resentment and isolation in your child, or you'll see their interest level fizzle out. And that goes to all roles in your life. Your interest or "ability to give a rip" directly impacts your relationships with others.
People can sense feigned interest and it causes the loss of life-giving and energizing excitement. In marriage this comes across as lack of respect, dismissal, or conditional love and support. In work this reads like lack of commitment to the company.
Love who and what your spouse loves, (obviously this doesn't apply if your spouse is in an unhealthy place such as addiction) and they will feel understood and supported.
Get excited about what your boss is excited about, and you'll enjoy your work environment more, and possibly even experience advancement in your career.
Care about what your child cares about, and you'll see that thing flourish within them.
In your friendships, if you pay attention and follow up about what is on the heart and mind of your friend, you'll develop the kinds of bonds that last a lifetime.
Don't let the most important relationships in your life be impacted because you can't figure out a way to give a rip about what matters to them most. You'll enjoy the strengthened connection between you when you make what is important to them, important to you!
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